Bring money-No memory, hide Dementia, Dementia, Dementia, Dementia, Complete Dementia
Date: 09/21/2016 01:15 (GMT-08:00)
To: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Subject:
Gary,
Apparently you are arriving in Israel today. Unless you can get money from Deborah Sturman for your food etc. you will have to support yourself as Mom and Mary Lou only have enough for themselves and the dogs.
Kathy
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From: garystevengevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Subject: RE: Sitting pretty
Date: September 11, 2016 at 10:38:17 AM PDT
To: David Danziger <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au>
Kathy – I’m not a medical doctor, but my conversations with mom show more lucidity it seems.
Today was no exception. When I called at 06:07 calif. time, mom answered the phone, recognized my voice instantly, told me who I was, and was overjoyed.
Mary-Lou was not around for the more than 7 minutes we spoke, and mom called out a couple of times including at the end when I asked to speak with Mary-Lou.
I taped the call as I have all my conversations with mom since visiting with her on Jan. 13.
Moreover, mom always responds incredibly positive, other than when she was being disrespected, and the most upsetting for her took place on Aug. 1st, which I believe then had those listening to the conversation disconnecting the phone. Given the stress that I knew mom experienced, and it is clearly audible, I called back the following day 6 times and the phone simply rang. I kept calling every day and no answer.
If it was just a coincidence and that Lance didn’t pay the bill which I don’t know why he would have been the one entrusted when Alan was still alive, that would explain it. Nor was there a disconnect notice that is automatic which only is very recent, last few days in fact.
I will use my common sense in my conversations with mom.
Let me know if you would like to hear the recording of my conversation with mom today.
I’m planning my trip right now and I will be staying in mom’s apartment.
There was a car that Alan and mom were using back on Jan. 13, and maybe that belonged to the caregiver? Whatever, happened to her? We won’t need a car since I have friends who will take us around if necessary.
We’re planning 3 to 4 weeks, maybe longer.
G
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From: David Danziger <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au>
Date: 09/11/2016 00:32 (GMT-08:00)
To: ‘GaryStevenGevisser’ <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Subject: RE: Sitting pretty
Gary,
She does always sounds happy, but, I know deep down inside she is very sad as she now can’t remember anything. She can’t remember where she is, sometimes can’t remember where the toilet is, where her bedroom is, who Mary Lou is, what she ate, where she went in the day…she just can’t remember! She can sometimes fool us, but, it takes so much energy for her to maintain a conversation. Best never to ask her questions and memorises to say ‘brilliant…never been happier’ when you ask how she is. She knows to say ‘I wish you were here’ and ‘ if you come I won’t want you to go’ as examples. Her intelligence has kept her illness hidden for a long time, however, 4-5 years ago I noticed a change in her.
I do not know who will visit this month, if anyone. Neil was there for 10 days 2 weeks ago to give Mary Lou time off, Melvin was there for 4 days in August and I was there for 12 days at the end of June.
The past 8 months have been traumatic for Mom with numerous carers in her home and all medical staff tending to Alan and Alan being so very very ill. She needs peace and quiet and to have her routine which includes her twice daily walks outside with her dogs, her meals and TV. Mary Lou also experienced animosity towards her by Alan’s ‘team’ and that she stayed, when anyone else would have walked out, shows what an incredible person she is and her total devotion to Mom. She was treated very badly and yet loved Alan and looked after both him and Mom 24/7 for 5 months until I demanded that he gets his own carer, which he eventually got mid – June 2016. So she also is enjoying the peace and tranquillity of the home.
If you want to visit Mom that’s ok as long as you come just to be with Mom and with no plans to engage with anyone else over the Wills etc. To ensure that Mom’s home is as is it now, tranquil. She deserves it after all she has been through.
K
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From: BigPond <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au>
Subject: Re: Sitting pretty
Date: September 10, 2016 at 11:56:22 PM PDT
To: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Thank god she always sounds happy, but, she gets upset when she can’t remember faces and the past as well as what she just ate, where she had just been and even who Mary Lou is for example. Because of what she feels, it is always best to keep conversations short without any questions. She has tried to hide her Dementia for years and did succeed somewhat by repeating what one has said and her keeping the contact very short. This might put things in perspective…the last time I was there in late June, Mom had a fall 2-3 days before I came. I took her to Orthopedic Emergency and we had to see a Dr, then go for X-rays, then another Dr etc and we were there for 4 hours and every 10 minutes she asked me why we were there…she could not recall anything. However, when the surgeon was looking at her X-rays and saw that she had a bad fracture and said that she needs to go to hospital overnight to get it properly fixed….she told him that he had to do it and do it there and then and that she was not leaving. She told him that she did not need a 20 year old wrist and that it did not need to be 100%. He did it. See picture. So in the here and now she can sound OK and she does have her feelings in tact and her hearing.
No one that I know is visiting her this month. Mom and Mary Lou have had an awful 8 months with Alan’s sickness and the flat filled with carers and medical staff for Alan. Mom needs a quiet environment, routine and her TV. She goes out with the dogs for a walk twice a day and spends the rest of the day on the couch watching TV…loves sport. So if you visit you need to let Mom maintain her routine and assist Mary Lou and to let her be.
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From: GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: Sitting pretty
Date: September 10, 2016 at 3:38:10 AM PDT
To: Kathy-Louise Gevisser danziger <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au>
Kathy,
Just talked to mom who seems in good spirits, recognized immediately and happy to hear my voice, and eager to see me.
Who else is visiting with her in the next month?
I think this would be a good time for me to visit, don’t you think?
And thank you for the number.
G
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On Sep 10, 2016, at 12:03 AM, BigPond <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au> wrote:
Gary,
The land line is not working. You can call on Alan’s cell phone 0549143528. Keep conversations with mom as brief as possible and try not to ask her questions…she can’t remember and it upsets her and she will want to end the call.
We would all like mom to go back to her cottage. It will need to be re carpeted, repainted, dampness dealt with throughout and the floor replaced in the kitchen. This is what we currently know from Alan….there could be much more. I have investigated full time care for Mom in the UK and feel that Mary Lou would be difficult to replace. She looks after Mom incredibly well …with her Dementia and other physical issues…and Mom loves her. I have a lawyer working on her papers and has lodged them and once she is registered to work in Israel( her previous employer died and after 8 years they have to leave Israel and became illegal) to be her carer she can then apply for a work permit for the UK as Mom’s carer in the UK….because she is currently her carer. No idea how long the process is…lodged the papers about 3-4 months ago.
K
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On 10 Sep 2016, at 1:01 am, GaryStevenGevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com> wrote:
Kathy,
Then I would like to see mom as soon as possible.
When is mom due back in England since it is her wish and we all care about mom?
Please have Mary-Lou use her phone to have mom call me now – 858-XXX-XXXX?
Gary
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On Sep 9, 2016, at 4:33 AM, David Danziger <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au> wrote:
Gary,
This will be brief and to the point. You have been fed information that is totally incorrect and you are being used to shoot the bullets. These are the facts:-
- Alan was diagnosed with Cancer Nov 2014 when Debra and I happened to be visiting Israel. It was also very apparent to me that Mom had Dementia and Alan himself was very aware of this.
- Mid December 2014 he took himself and Mom to a Lawyer to get new Wills. I only knew the contents of the new Wills in Feb 2016 when Alan told me what was in them. I was shocked as I knew the contents of Mom’s previous Wills. I asked him to leave you money he owed you as well and Mom’s grandchildren and his grandchildren, 2 of whom he had never met. He refused. In April 2016 he was at Eli Symons office and he called me from there and told me exactly what was in his Will and at that time he said he had appointed Eli as Executor of his Estate and to get instruction from me, however, I was never ever to give you anything. He also told me that all his and Mom’s money was being held in accounts in Deborah Sturman’s name and no mention of this money was in either of their Wills. Eli Symon prepared a document for Deborah Sturman to sign acknowledging she was holding their money. She never signed it.
- In June 2016 Eli Symon again spoke to Alan and told him that he needed to get all their money being held by Deborah Sturman into a Trust Account that Alan had made Ayala Weizel open weeks before, to ensure that Mom would be well cared for. Alan was unable to write at that stage and Eli Symon instructed Ayala W to write that Deborah Sturman is to deposit approximately 10,000 pounds a month into the Trust account. She did it once and refused to do it again….I am not sure why.
- In July 2016 a week or 2 before Alan’s passing, Deborah Sturman got Alan and Mom’s Doctor, Dr. Guggenheim, to come to the apartment to sign an Affidavit that Alan was of sound body and mind, with Ros and Jonny present and everything being filmed…even got Mom to come in and kiss Alan, and Deborahbecame the beneficiary of his new Will. It appears that everything was staged in case his state of mind might be challenged.
Some Facts
- Alan was diagnosed November 2014, Ros only came January 2016, Deborah only came June 2016. Deborah did not even come for his funeral. Melvin came immediately for 3 days to be with Mom during this time. I was there 7 times in the 18 months since he was diagnosed helping him and Mom. I was the one who got Mary Lou, I was the one who was able to get Alan’s carer, Jun, to stay on when his other one left after 3 days and Jun was threatening to leave after 4 days. I was not to get one single cent from either of their Wills. I had nothing to gain andsince May 2016 all I was trying to do was to ensure that Mom and Alan’s money was available to Mom for anything and everything she would need to take care of her as no mention of their money being held by Deborah Sturman was in the Will. Maybe something you do not know. Alan was Executor of Les Shagam’s Estate. He had an apartment which was sold and bought by Deborah Sturman for approx. 320,000 pounds and Alan said the money was sent to a ‘friend’ of Les’s in France. This apartment was then sold by Deborah last year for 700,000 pounds having had tennants paying rent all these years. Alan told me that Deborah had invested their money well. Alan had asked David to do what Deborah did and David refused.
- Please understand that Neil, Melvin and I have always been there for Alan and really the only family he had. Both of them were devastated when I told them about Mom and Alan’s new Wills. Neil and Melvin were to benefit substantially from Mom’s Will of 2009. In Feb 2016 Alan befriended a woman, whom he paid hourly…she took total control of him and fed him lies. He became so suspicious of us which was ridiculous. This woman hated Mom, did not understand Dementia and would torment her. Alan knew this and tried to stop her coming to the apartment, but, he was torn as he needed her to navigate the medical system. She was pure evil, manipulated him and controlled him. I eventually was able to stop her coming to apartment in June 2016 by getting Social Workers involved and she was removed from being Alan’s carer. Alan however continued to see her out of the apartment and she continued to tell him lies about us. Alan’s carer was always with him when he went out with this woman, and from the information I was given while she was out with Alan, validated everything I suspected she was doing.
- Melvin, Neil and I just want Mom to be at peace and well cared for. Her condition has deteriorated and although you think she knows what is going on , she is smart enough to fool you. She has no memory ,however,in the moment she could make you think she is OK. David went to see Mom en route from South Africa to Poland for 1 night last week and she is in good health physically, but, has all the signs now of complete Dementia…..very sad.
- The phone is again not working and Mary Lou will get someone in to fix itafter Shabbat. The internet and TV are not working as the accounts have not been paid! Lance did not pay the accounts as he was waiting for a new credit card. I deal with the day to day running of the home and work very closely with Mary Lou to ensure Mom has the best care. Mary Lou is a godsend.
Kathy
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From: garystevengevisser <garystevengevisser@gmail.com>
Subject: Sitting pretty
Date: September 8, 2016 at 11:02:18 AM PDT
To: Kathy-Louise Gevisser danziger <dkdanz@bigpond.net.au>, Neil Gevisser <neil@rhymedisease.com>, Melvin Gevisser <mgevisser@sbcglobal.net>, “Zena Badash-Ash Gevisser Zulman [May 30 1929 – ] c/o Arnold Pollak” <arnold@signforce.co.za>
Cc: rest, “Barry Molk, MD.” <blmolk1@mac.com>, “ haron Barak – President of the Supreme Court of Israel [1995-2006]” <barak@idc.ac.il>, Marie Dion Gevisser <mariedion1@gmail.com>, “Deborah Sturman Esq – Played pivotal role in collecting billions of $ from remnants of Germany’s military machine during WW II, but stopped way too short when realizing it was so close to home.” <deborah.sturman@nyu.edu>, Benjamin Netanyahu – highly decorated Prime Minister of Israel <bnetanyahu@knesset.gov.il>, “California The coupon clipper is the Jeffrey Jack The Ripper Essakow – co-owner of the Marc Rich and Co. Flower Hill Mall Solana Beach” <jessakow@proteaproperties.com>, “Rabbi Caspers C. Funnye – close cousin of First Lady Michelle Obama.” <ravfunnye@sbcglobal.net>, Keisha Whitaker – wife of Forest Whitaker <kbabies1@aol.com>, Annabel Linder – South African Radio Show Host <hosts@1485.org.za>
Connect the phone in the Netanya apartment and do as mom wished, beginning with having her speak with me.
The past is not as important as the future which we can all change.
Mom’s wishes for the future are very clear in terms of where she wants to be after Alan Zulman died on Aug. 6, and which you all ignore on your very talkative Facebook walls; as well as who she wants to be most near to; and it is not the 3 of you or your spouses or for that matter Melvin’s disaster ex.
That does not mean the past is unimportant.
Within hours when following up with lawyers in Israel while keeping the British authorities informed every step of the way, I will be going back to events in Lake Tahoe Nevada that so disappointed our mother, and Kathy’s giggling in the courtroom of such serious charges against Neil which were not fabricated, but certainly they were open to interpretation, did not go unnoticed by our mother Zena because she too read what the newspapers reported.
Qualification to be our mother’s guardian is also a subjective test even if eventually manslaughter charges are brought against the 3 of you given how very lucid, and most controlled was our mother when speaking last with me on August 1, right before the phone was disconnected.
Her previous “pronouncements” were no less lucid as well as being extraordinarily revealing of her intellect.
The fact that none of you have ever once tapped into our mother’s most joyful mind has also never been lost on her.
You also know why it is that there are few to none intimate photos of any of you alone with our mother as there are plenty with me from the moment I was born,
until I began with permission from mom to ever so gently begin tarnishing the self image of Alan Zulman as the savior of Israel, because it was not helping Israel; on the contrary it was only serving to spread at an alarming rate antisemitism throughout the world.
The 3 of you were very late in jumping on to my bandwagon, and nor did you express to me or anyone of note your sudden hatred of Zulman as you of course missed the boat entirely since he, on his death bed, was in no position, to change his prior actions or anything of the past.
The 3 of you had Zulman totally befuddled, which you knew, but that didn’t prevent the 3 of you from crapping all over him as he embarrassingly lost control of his cancerous bowls and the cancer spreading to more than his kidneys.
You enjoyed the torture as it helped you to forget the past as you had increasingly cozied up to him to grab his and mom’s estate and to enjoy the wealth before you ended up in horrific pain like Zulman who had little to show in the end for his 8+ decades on this magnificent planet that only provides a glimpse of the spectacular universe that only boggles the mind of us humans.
What unbelievable punishment to have the 3 of you in his midst as the clock slowly ticked down.
He had to be asking himself if it was all worth it and what he could do to make amends and I believe his wishes were granted.
I will in time visit his grave and pass my respects.
When you go into denial you lose your spirituality that I agree does not pay the bills at least not directly.
There is a connection between spirituality and common sense even if your mind misses it.
You also know that as of Aug. 1 mom would have continued to agree that a mind is a terrible thing to lose, even worse than losing all your Facebook friends who you know most are following along very closely, including The Coupon Clipper is Jack The Ripper Jeffrey Essakow whose FB has also yet to announce the passing of his mother’s close cousin, Alan Zulman who has now been dead 1 month and 2 days, and I still haven’t heard back from his estate lawyer South African-Israeli Eli Symon who is obviously in cahoots with Kathy’s South African-Israeli sick lawyer Ayala Wiesil who is also quiet and both thinking that the monies you pay them, including those that came out of Alan Zulman’s joint bank account with Deborah Sturman Esq would more than compensate for their gross negligence in breach of their fiduciary responsibilities towards Alan Zulman’s estate and mom’s healthcare needs that are also inextricably connected to both her estate and Alan Zulman’s remaining estate.
I will also be covering what the employer of Alan Zulman’s only son, Lance Zulman can do to best protect mentally handicapped Lance from you vultures. The Israeli Revenue Service should be able to reach out better than me.
The recording of my last phone conversation with mom on Aug. 1, is not only clear about how mom viewed all those disrespecting her wishes which included her caregiver Mary-Lou who the 3 of you had co-opted this indentured servant from across the seas Philippines, a crime that is unforgivable, but you can hear “vivdly” [sic] the loud annoying noise in the background, and me asking mom to ask them to turn it down, and her sad response clearly audible.
You would all lose hands down in any fair court of law but you have already lost in the space that most matters.
For the remainder of your 3 long lives you will have the most difficult time being in each others company and the same will apply to your children who will inevitably see that the monies they receive will not have been worth having their foolish names and faces added to the FOOLS NAMES, FOOLS FACES IN PUBLIC PLACES.
When you hug and kiss one another on those few remaining “ocasions” [sic] please let me know if the tension is thick enough to cut through with any kitchen knife.
Bear constantly in mind that this most alarming last conversation with my mother Zena took place 5 days before Alan Zulman’s heart stopped beating and the 3 of you could no longer take out your anger at yourselves on his flesh and bones, which does not mean that Alan Zulman’s mind had stopped functioning when your 3 pronged vicious attack began soon after you received my Jan. 14 communique, the day following our visit with mom and Alan Zulman which he “interupted” [sic] after 10 minutes because it was not going his way; and nor was he thinking that he would be helping the 3 of you because like the 3 of you he did not know how you would react to my communique which I had yet to write.
Your heartless actions against our mother continue to mount.
I must do everything I can to stop it.
Go do the right thing.
To life!
Gary
PS – I’m in the middle of the Cleveland National Forest on a hike with very patient Mango and decided to take a short break and to use the miraculous and only positive forces of mother nature that our mother also knows only too well, to get all of you to wake up before it is too late to turn back the clock.
Everything, without exception, is clockwork for even the single red ant near my Solomon running sneakers is staying away also from Mango who is right now stretched out on his stomach on top of the table bench where I’m sitting.
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